it could be a conversation with your boss
or it could be a conversation with your friends while you're on your phone
sometimes we just dont care
we are not engaged with the people that are around us...because we like our selves too much
sometimes i catch my self thinking about my problems while someone is talking about something it be important or not.
the worst is when i see people actively being in the conversation but its obvious they have no interest
why do we do this?
would it be a dick move to tell the people that we just aren't interested?
I think we understand that people need time to talk to express what is on their mind
and so we let them,
but
its just so weird when you see people with no interest about the other person keep engaging
I feel you.
ReplyDeleteI think that maybe, we do that sometimes because we know that one day we would need that type of support too. We may not care about the details of what a friend (or not) may be speaking about at a particular moment. And it may suck to a certain extant that we are not fully in the moment at that time within the conversation (well because maybe we r in the moment with our mind, about something else, which is important too). The ideal would be for us to be able to be there, mind body soul, while we engage with anyone. But at the end of the day. Thats wasnt the case in that convo. Anyway what im tying to say is, we know our physical (body) presence w someone, while they let out whats on their mind, might help them get to a conclusion or next point in their development. Just as much as we may need an act like that from smome else. I dont know. I think its out of love. But honestly, the ideal is that we could all be present, mind body and soul at each moment. We will get there. Right now, we need to trust. And grow.